Thanks-"giving"

Thanksgiving is one of those holidays where we all say we're thankful for our many blessings and demonstrate how thankful we actually are with plentiful dinner plates, food-coma naps, family drama, and endless bargain shopping. How you say thanks and demonstrate your gratitude reflects a lot about your character/personality, but more importantly...who are you "giving" thanks to?

Personally, I am greatly appreciative of how Jesus always provides for every aspect of my life. When we thought our wedding and honeymoon would put us deep in the financial hole, Jesus somehow gifted us more than we ever expected. When I didn't think I would ever find a husband, Jesus brings my man to the softball field. When I see so many people unemployed and seeking work, I can't believe Jesus would gift me with job security. So whether its financially, with relationships, work, or health - I, in my own (blogging) way, give thanks to Jesus by giving Him all praises. I give much thanks because I'm so unworthy.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!

A Newlyweds War

What a generous gift God gives to us in marriage. Not only do we better understand a covenant relationship of unity or oneness between the Son of God and the Father, but the endless opportunities to serve someone with joy. As Pastor Bubba proclaimed at the alter of our wedding day, this isn't just about loving one another with glee or the end of single-hood, but rather marriage is the beginning of war against Satan. Its a challenging & humbling war against pride, revenge, and selfishness in efforts to endure, fighting the good fight as two individual sinners continue to sin against one another. The challenge isn't who can stay silent the longest or admit to their faults first, but instead the battle is breaking the prideful walls down, admitting that I have sinned and stepping forward in a new direction towards change.

The rewards of overcoming the daily war is remarkable! You see the redemptive Jesus in action, better understand your shortcoming flaws that make you imperfect, a new perspective of your spouse, and in the end we get the privilege to worship Christ for getting you through it.

Marriage is far more than compromises, new shiny rings or awesome registry gifts - its a gift from our Father which we get to unwrap each day.